Communicating and Influencing: Civil Service Examples and Interview Questions

Communicating and Influencing appears in Civil Service job adverts at every grade, and it's the behaviour candidates most consistently misread. They prepare evidence of communicating — presenting clearly, keeping people informed, staying professional in difficult conversations. Panels score the second word: influencing. Did someone's position, behaviour or decision actually move because of what you did?

That gap is why pleasant, articulate candidates score 3s and 4s on this behaviour while feeling the interview went well. This article covers what panels actually score, the questions to expect, and a realistic answer rewritten from a borderline fail to a 6/7, annotated line by line.

What panels are actually scoring

Four things, in rough order of weight:

Movement. The single strongest signal: someone started at "no", "not like that", or "not my priority" — and ended somewhere else because of you. If everyone in your story agrees with you throughout, you've accidentally deleted your influencing evidence.

Deliberate choices about how. Why a conversation rather than an email. Why you led with their problem rather than your request. Why you took the difficult message in person. Choosing the channel and framing on purpose, with a "because", is descriptor-level evidence in one sentence.

Honesty under pressure. Delivering the unwelcome message yourself — clearly, with the reasons — rather than softening it into meaninglessness or passing it upward.

Audience adaptation. Technical content translated for non-specialists, or the same message framed differently for two different stakeholders, with the reasoning visible.

The questions panels actually ask

• Tell me about a time you persuaded someone to change their approach or position.
• Tell me about a difficult conversation you had to handle.
• Give an example of delivering a message someone didn't want to hear.
• Tell me about a stakeholder who was reluctant to engage — how did you bring them round?
• Give an example of explaining something complex or technical to a non-specialist audience.
• Tell me about a time you adapted your communication style for a particular person or situation.
• Tell me about a time your communication approach didn't work — what did you change?

A real answer, rewritten: from 3–4/7 to 6/7

The question: "Tell me about a time you had to bring a reluctant stakeholder on board."

Read it as a panel member. Every action is a broadcast: an email explaining benefits, a meeting presenting reasons, guidance talked through. The stakeholder's actual objection is never discovered — he's "reluctant", his concerns are "listened to" and then reassured away, and we never learn what they were. "Eventually his team started using the form" — was that the meeting, or attrition, or the manager quietly intervening after being "kept informed"? The panel can't tell, so they can't score it. Communication happened; influence was never demonstrated.

What changed:

• The objection is discovered, not managed. Version 1 reassures away concerns it never identifies; Version 2 finds a real, legitimate cost — and the acknowledgement of it is the turning point.
• A deliberate channel choice with a "because". Fifteen minutes in person instead of a third email, and the reasoning stated.
• A concession, made strategically. Conceding the bulk format is judgement, not weakness — and the answer says why it was the right trade.
• Evidence chosen for the audience. His own team's query-rate data, because "I judged evidence from his own team would persuade him where my assurances hadn't" — that sentence alone is descriptor language made concrete.
• Movement you can verify. He goes from refusal, to trial, to extending it himself, to advocating unprompted. The panel can point to each step.

How Communicating and Influencing changes by grade

• EO: handle the challenging conversation yourself — the unhappy customer, the colleague pushing back — with honesty about what can and can't be done, and adapt your communication to the person's needs. Pure de-escalation with the underlying problem untouched is the classic EO cap.
• HEO: influence appears — someone's position moves because of you, and the difficult message is delivered by you rather than passed up. Channel choices become deliberate. The Version 2 answer above is pitched here.
• SEO: the audience gets more senior and the stakes higher — delivering a message a senior stakeholder doesn't want to hear, moving someone who disagrees with you, translating technical material for decision-makers.
• Grade 7: influence at organisational level — briefings and submissions that changed a senior decision, negotiating with other departments, holding a position under senior pressure while staying open to challenge.

Our complete grade guides (EO, HEO, SEO, Grade 7) cover this calibration across all nine behaviours, each with full worked examples at that grade.

Common mistakes that cap your score

1. No resistance in the story — if nobody disagreed, nothing was influenced.
2. Broadcasting harder as the strategy — more emails, longer meetings, clearer guidance. Influence starts with discovering the objection, not restating the case.
3. The objection never identified — "I listened to his concerns and reassured him" without ever saying what the concerns were is unscoreable.
4. Resolution by attrition or escalation — "eventually they came round" and "I kept my manager informed" both hand the influencing to someone or something else.
5. Mood as the result — "they were happy with the update" is not movement. What did they do differently?

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